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Isaiah 30:21My mind is slightly all over the place this evening. I’m trying to tame my thoughts to make sure I tell the story that has been laid on my heart. I am currently on what I deem my second great adventure. I truly believe that everything that happens will be truly great as long as I listen.

I have officially been in Colorado for one month this week and everything that is happening just proves, that if I let God, He has an amazing plan for my life. When I first came out here I went to a meeting for church builders, not sure I really belonged there, but why not? After attending the meeting I received a book called The Faith of Leap: Embracing a Theology of Risk, Adventure & Courage. Now, if that isn’t the most perfect book title for what I am doing I don’t know what is.

I have been slowly diving into this book, and I mean slowly, but that is because I find myself highlight or underlining half of the page on most of the pages in the book.

First, we confront the fear of crisis: “Crisis is no bad thing. In fact it’s an opportunity to rediscover.” Wow, that line just blew me away in this book. The past has been one giant crisis after the next. I have worn my armor and tried to protect myself from my real emotions, tried to protect my family from how I was falling a part. Really, I was looking at the situation all wrong. God was not allowing life to sucker punch me repeatedly because it looked like I was just “too happy,” it was allowed because I needed that opportunity. It is time all of us take a look at the drama and crises and see if they are really just opportunities.

Secondly, we start to see how this life and our walk with the Lord are supposed to be an unpredictable adventure. The book quotes Tolkien,

[Bilbo] used often to say that there was only one Road; that it was like a great river: its springs are at every doorstep, and every path is its tributary. “It’s a dangerous business, Frodo, going out of your door,” he used to say. “You step into the Road, and if you don’t keep your feet, there’s no knowing where you might be swept off to.”

Life Begins... You can’t predict life, but you can predict your reactions. The greatest thing any one of us can do is show love and compassion to others remembering that each of us are going through a battle. Of course, we all misstep and do the wrong thing, say the wrong thing, but it’s how we move forward with that. My sister, one of the nicest people you will ever meet, is a 2nd grade teacher. She called this week and said she was really disappointed in how she reacted to one of her students. I reminded her that you can do something right 1000 times, but that 1001 time you just mess up. That IS LIFE. That doesn’t mean we don’t walk out onto the road.

“Adventure is an attitude we must apply to the day-to-day obstacles of our life…” We get a second chance EVERY second of every day of our lives, yet so many of is do not take advantage of this. You could change everything. Not happy where you are? Move. Not happy with your relationship with God? Pray. Having trouble forgiving? Forgive and Forget. Need to apologize? Call them. Life is an adventure and we have to be willing to seize what God gave us and live for him every moment.

The book provides some great reasons for why we don’t do anything though. My favorite two lines so far are: “Much depends on how we perceive life–as a threat or opportunity.” and “Our preference for stability and security blind us to the opportunities for adventure when they present themselves.”

I love the second one because that is why I left Florida. That is why I am in Colorado, thousands of miles away from my family and friends.

The last thing I’ve taken away from this wonderful book so far is that life is anything, but normal and we have to live with courage.

“Courage finds it’s greatest expression in love and sacrifice. It is that point where we can be sure we are in faith (1 John 3). When we really love, consistently and in Jesus’s name, we are being as courageous as we are ever expected to be.”

Courage is a wonderful thing, we need it to make it through every day. I know it may seem like you aren’t courageous in your life, but take a look and see that standing up to someone, being kind to a stranger, dealing with poor health, dealing with death, saying good-bye and so many more things are all acts of courage.

Today I went on my own adventure. I went out alone and just was. I didn’t need to be with someone else in order to enjoy this wonderful world. I hope that each of you can learn to live life they way it was meant to be for Jesus. And so I leave you with this, “Martin Luther suggested, the church should live its life as if Jesus died yesterday, rose from the dead toady, and is coming back tomorrow.” Are you living that way?

Today I am smiling for this great adventure.

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I’ve spent a lot of my life trying to figure things out. I’ve tried it my way, tried to take what I wanted and impose it on Gods plans. Let me tell you how well that has worked out for me. However, it’s not really fair to sit here and tell you all about miracles and encounters and special circumstances without telling you how I got here.

I grew up in a family that believed in God, went to church, prayed, etc. etc. I kept going to church, praying, and believing until I got to college. Then I stopped going to church, prayed some nights, but still believed… or I think I believed.

Then I met a guy who insisted I needed to go to church with him. (This is just a guy not a romantically partner that will change my life). I had agreed to go to church, it was Mother’s Day and you know what happened? I woke up an hour before my alarm to a phone call from my sister. My mom was in the hospital with a possible heart attack. I jumped out of bed, threw some stuff in a bag and started driving home, no church for me. I really thought that was not a good sign for this church.

A few more months go by and I am in total bliss with my recent college graduation, a job, and an amazing boy that I saw no end with. Well, then the boat started rocking. I think God was frustrated with me. He was giving me everything I wanted, but I ignored Him because of that “bad omen.” Finally, to be blunt, shit hit the fan.

The boy and I break-up, my mom is in the hospital needing brain surgery (you can read though my posts for more on that), my grandma falls, my grandad can’t remember who I am, and I’m not happy with my job. Seemed like a good time to try out this church thing again.

It’s only been 5 months, but so much has changed because of all of the bad things. I’m not saying everything worked out and I have roses and butterflies. In fact, everything is nothing like I expected. My mom is happy, my grandparents continue their downward spiral, the boy who I loved so much and I can’t even speak, and I moved across the country.

You know what though? I’m happy. I got out here and I found a church. That is the most important foundation. I need to surround myself with people who love the Lord, people who will pick me up when I’m failing, falling, and scared out of my mind. It’s too soon to tell where everything will lead, but I jumped into this with the Lord knowing He was kicking me out of my own ways. I wish I would have listened sooner, I wish I would have never stopped listening before, but I can’t change how it has played out. I can, however, change how I continue.

I like to say worrying is something I am great at…. I’m also great at telling God how I think things should be. What I am finally learning though is if you take the time to sit with the Lord and soak Him into your heart, you will change, mountains will become mole hills, and problems will have solutions.

I think back to every time I almost came back to God, every time I almost walked into a church, read a book, and I was stopped. I am starting to realize that the Devil medals more in the lives of the ones who are seeking then the ones who have found or than those that are lost. He doesn’t waste his time, he plots to destroy you. He plans on you turning and never looking back. Everything should have destroyed me, but I am stronger and braver than I ever was. I have found a peace that will never leave. I have found myself again and it was about time because I really missed me.

What’s even crazier is that according to the world I should feel alone right now, but in all truth I’ve never felt more alive. I started this blog when I was really confused on the path my life was taking to remind myself that no matter how bad or confusing things were each day gave us something to smile about. And when I struggle I look through my posts and remember all of the things I have that make me smile.

Today I am smiling for a fresh start, which seems only fitting for Easter 🙂

Happy Easter everyone!

240027855111609098_lPl7TKxO_bTell me a story. A story of love with no end in sight. Tell me how you overcome the backward, unexplainable actions. Tell me how you fall in love and stay there. Tell me.

This is no ordinary love story and really it isn’t my love story to tell, but then again if I don’t tell it who will?

Think about everything you could put a relationship through, every test, every heartbreak and image you still get your happy ending. There were times of silence, times when nothing seemed like they would ever work out again. There were times when everyone gave up and walked away.

How do you overcome that? How do you learn to trust the other person again? I don’t know how personally, but I have seen it. I have seen a relationship put through unimaginalbe things, things that would doom it to fail. You know what though? God brought them back together exactly when the worst things imaginable were happening. He has a funny way of doing that, never early, never late, but always perfect timing.

He brought them back together and then the whole world FLIPPED upside down. We have one in the hospital because of a mystery mass on their brain, the other with two parents on the verge of reaching the other side, and they have each other again. Perfect timing, but more miracles were on the way.

The mass turned out to be an infection, not a tumor or cancer. The parents died within such a short time of  each other they had a joint funeral. The medicine that would keep the one from going to the funeral were cut off on CHRISTMAS DAY and in perfect timing they were both able to go to the funeral.

God sure is great.

Now, you would think, “okay they’ve had enough, time for a break?” No, God isn’t done yet. Two more parents health failing, Alzheimer’s stealing one before they are actually gone, the other so weak any misstep could be the call we all dread. There is a silver lining though and it comes in the form of a promise. A promise that they will never let go of each other. The missteps of the past are exactly that and have been left where they should.

We aren’t meant to understand, we are meant to trust.

Today I am smiling for their love, for my love for them, and for their love for me.

Hebrews 13:5When I was younger I took the popular saying, “everything happens for a reason,” and changed it. I changed it to, “everything happens for a reason, that’s what we tell ourselves to make us feel better in bad situations.” I clearly did not believe the saying.

What I didn’t get then is that by me saying that I was challenging what I claimed to believe in. God says in Romans 8:28, “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”

It took me a long time and a lot of mistakes to finally understand it all. See I could have saved myself from a few things that have really hurt me in my adult life, but I didn’t see the whole picture then. And even if I could have seen the whole picture there are still so many things out of my control. Nothing will change that my mom had brain surgery and that my grandparents continually slip into the vast emptiness that is Alzheimer. It would be easy for me to get angry and frustrated for so many trials coming at one time, but God knows me far too well.

He knew what it would take to kick me into living the life He had planned for me because as long as I felt safe, I wasn’t going to move. It took this kick to follow Him into the unknown. MercyMe has a song called Move:

I’m not about to give up
Because I heard you say
There’s gonna be brighter days
There’s gonna be brighter days

I won’t stop, Ill keep my head up
No, I’m not here to stay
There’s gonna be brighter days
There’s gonna be brighter days

I just might bend but wont break
As long as I can see your face

When life wont play along
And right keeps going wrong
And I cant seem to find my way
I know where I am found
So I wont let it drag me down
Oh, I’ll keep dancing anyway

I’m gonna move (move)

I took a leap of faith with God and there are brighter days and everything does happen for a reason. We just have to take a moment to breathe and see that even when the world is seemingly falling all around you there is hope. Not only is there hope, but there is love and even when you feel as if the whole world has left you and there is nothing, there is God. Sometimes we are too stubborn for our own good and God knows exactly what to do to make you move.

Trust Him when everything is falling because it just means great things are awaiting you. It just means you had to learn this lesson to get to where you are supposed to be.

If we stop and think about every time we didn’t think we would make it what we would really see are the moments that made us. They didn’t break us.

Smile and keep dancing.

 

My sign: Trusted no one.

FLIP

Finding trust through Him.

Today I am smiling for both sides of my cardboard.

Today I am smiling for THE BEST NEWS EVER.

Thank you to wonderful amazing doctors and the Lord for miracles.

I am the type of person that does not settle. I am constantly looking for the best option and it makes it very hard to keep up with me. I am always on the move and find it very difficult to just sit down and do nothing.

This becomes a problem because I end up over doing it sometimes, but I don’t know how to not. I want to make sure I’m making the best choice for my future and in my mind that’s being constantly busy.

So far it’s turned out pretty great, so I’m smiling for never settling.

Direction. Find a direction to go in and keep going?

We go to college and expect to find all of the answers, find ourselves, find out who we “were meant to be.” You’ll go through the four years and along the way everything will start to make sense. Then you’ll graduate and life will just go along on its merry way with you on board.

Too bad that’s a fairytale.

When do we ever truly figure out who we are? We always think we have who we are figured out, but then we get another test from life  and learn an new lesson and wham we’re changed. Or we say yes when we could have said no… everything can change just like that. Then the what if games begin and we could start going crazy.

Well the truth is we never really have it all figured out, we never stop finding ourselves. We just have to keep going and make the best choices that we can to be the person we want to be.
Smile for the never ending discovery.

 

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” – MLK Jr.

Here’s to faith.

Today I am smiling for not having a clue, but being okay with that.